Sometimes it’s easy to spend time thinking about the digital world, tweaking websites and writing about all the exciting new trends, without ever making the real world changes that are just as important.
Over the last couple of weeks, I’ve been spending a bit more time sorting my offline life, and I’m hoping it’ll have a positive effect on the digital one as well – if only because my first move means I might be around to write about it a bit longer…
Giving up smoking…
I’m finally making a concerted effort to kick the smoking habit after more than a decade. It’s been a meagre 8 days so far, and initially I was keeping it quiet, but after the first week, I figured it was worth sharing and using the risk of public shame and humiliation as an additional reason to stay off ciggies.
The approach so far is to tell myself I’m not forcing myself to quit forever, I’m making the choice not to smoke today, and that, combined with nicotine lozenges, seem to be working pretty well. I’m already cutting down on the lozenges to far below the nicotine I’m used to, and rarely feeling any physical cravings.
The main problem has been creatively – I’ve had smoking as part of my creative process since I first started writing for a living, and going outside for a cigarette mid-blog post has been part of my routine for my entire blogging life. That’s the only time when the psychological craving really kicks in, but I’m slowly getting used to thinking differently about it. Plus I should have an extra hour in my day at least!
Getting out more…
The temptation after a week of commuting and the office is to collapse at the weekend, but I’m fighting hard to resist that urge, and spend a lot more time actively having fun with my son - over the last couple of weekends we’ve managed to visit places with names like ‘Hills and Holes’ ‘Nine Bridges’ and cool local water park with all sorts of sprinklers and water fountains to run through and play with to make sure daddy is absolutely soaked by the end of it. If that means a little less time surfing without a defined purpose, then so be it.
Getting organised at home…
And the last piece is probably the most challenging and least fun. Organising bills and having to negotiate with companies who have no interest in providing decent prices for decent service is less enjoyable than giving up smoking, but it has to be done. And I’ve even started making a little progress towards sorting out the house, and my wreck of a car.
So that’s my offline life dump – I figured it was worth sharing considering I’ve been quieter than normal, and a lot of it has an effect on my digital output. It should all be positive changes, but just don’t feel offended if I turn down the offer of a cigarette from now on. (And this still doesn’t change the fact that the cool people are all outside the pub smoking – it just means I’ve accepted I’ll never be cool anyway!)




