Is Xbox Live better than golf for digital business networking?

I’ve never managed to get into golf as a sport, but I’ve often been made aware of it as a useful social gathering for business people to get together. Was I missing out due to my lack of interest, ability and plaid sportswear?

My Lucky Golf Outfit by Jeff The Trojan on Flickr

My Lucky Golf Outfit‘ by Jeff the Trojan on Flickr (CC Licence)

Well, if golf was the social context for business networking in the past, I’m rapidly realising that Xbox Live appears to have replaced it. Obviously my network is self-selecting to an extent, but a quick scan of my friends includes:

  • a couple of founders of significant start-ups (i.e. companies you’ll definitely know).
  • a fair number of journalists, including a couple of editors.
  • 5-10 fairly prominent digital marketers.
  • a handful of tech experts in specialist areas.

Theoretically it’s possible I could keep up with all of these friends in the pub, although it’d take a mighty amount of diary juggling and even then, some of them are rarely in the same city with enough free time.

But it’s easy for me to meet up with them online and spend some time gaming (and occasionally chatting about general tech stuff in between). And without wishing to provoke the wrath of Sony/Nintendo fans, the fact that Xbox Live has long been the most seemless and best integrated online networked console experience, means it’s a pretty good time all round…

It interesting how this facet of being social has become integrated into the digital world automatically and subsconsciously alongside keeping in touch with family, friends, colleagues and the looser circle of connections around them both on a personal level, and sharing links, information etc…

And even if the game of choice is pretty much always Call of Duty: Modern Warfare 2 (Xbox 360), I could probably even be tempted into a spot of Tiger Woods PGA Tour 11 (Xbox 360).

The democratisation of old school networks

A chance conversation with @farhan about social networking and social media reminded me of something I’d been considering for a while, but hadn’t got round to posting.

Which is the fact that ‘social networking’ has always existed in a very formal sense – in the networking that took place on the golf course, or amongst graduates of certain university colleges or public schools (In the UK, a ‘public’ school is, in fact a private school). You’d network with people wearing the right tie and blazer, and you’d either be born into, or pay your way into that network. A rare few tended to work their way into it by some good fortune.

And I’m not for a moment going to suggest that the ‘old school tie’ networks have been replaced by Facebook or Twitter. Or that there aren’t cliques already formed by social media ‘experts’, marketing people or tech geeks.

But the barrier to entry has become a lot lower. By investing time and effort into researching the right topics, adding value, or tieing together individuals, it’s entirely possible to become the lynchpin or a significant member of an online community – and whilst it’s not always a measure of skill or knowledge, the barrier is your natural skill in interacting via your keyboard or mobile, rather than anything else – unless you’ve reached a certain stage of internet celebrity, your looks, elocution, or ease in the presence of others won’t be tested, and your online social footprint will go some way to preparing, mitigating or even celebrating your possible shortcomings.

Which can only be a good thing – although the question is whether the new networking will evolve to better recognise the people truly providing value, and those who talk (blog) a good game. And how well those truly working at what they do are able to invest the additional time in marketing themselves in the age of the *ahem* personal brand.